Hinduism in Uganda & Tribal Marriage Culture in Uganda ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฌ

    1. Christianity (around 85% of the population)
    2. Islam (around 14% of the population)
    3. Traditional African religions and other beliefs including Hindus around 1%.
      In Uganda, marriage customs vary depending on the tribe and region. Here are some common practices:
    4. Kwanjula (Introduction): A pre-wedding ceremony where the groom’s family introduces themselves to the bride’s family, asking for her hand in marriage.
    5. Kukyala (Dowry payment): The groom pays a dowry, usually in the form of money, cattle, or goods, to the bride’s family.
    6. Traditional wedding: A ceremony where the couple is blessed by elders and leaders, often involving music, dance, and feasting.
    7. Church wedding: A Christian wedding ceremony, common in Uganda, where the couple exchanges vows and rings.
    8. Polygamy: Allowed in some cultures, where a man can marry multiple wives.
    9. Clan compatibility: In some tribes, marriage is only allowed between specific clans or families.
    10. Banyakole Tribe : In the Banyakole tribe of Uganda, there is a unique tradition called “Omukago” or “Kukagara”. This involves a pre-marital sex test between the groom and with all the bride’s aunts both maternal and the paternal aunts. If the bride is not having any auntie, then sisters in law or elder sisters or wives of uncles ( maternal) of the bride are to be selected for the sex test. The purpose is to ensure the couple’s compatibility and fertility.
      Here’s how it works:
      . At least minimum four ladies are to be selected for testing. For maximum there is no limit.
    • The selected aunts/ sisters in law / elder sisters are usually young and married women and are willing to sex with the groom.
    • The sex with groom is to be done in well in advance by all the selected aunties/ sisters in law/ elder sisters much before the day of marriage ceremony.
    • The selected women, then reports back to the family on the groom’s performance and fertility.
    • If the groom passes, the marriage proceeds.
      Nowadays throughout Uganda the marriage ceremony, involves testing the husband’s bed antics and potency.
      The brideโ€™s aunts/ sisters in law/ sisters will have a sex session with the husband to check how good he is and if he is a type of man who will give their girl children.
      This is to make sure they are potent.
      The selected women make sure to check how the man’s pipi works down there, and they report to the elders, whether he is a good man or not. During thy act with the man, the selected women note down his sex sweetness.
      They try all his favorite styles so bride can take a good note of everything about him.
      After these the selected women call the girl and explain to her how her husband behaves in bed and the styles he likes. They then teach her. After confirmation is done the marriage is allowed.
      Marriage in Uganda is of great importance as parents derive joy and pride from their childrenโ€™s marriage.
      According to the Ugandan tradition, when a girl gets to the age of eight or nine, it is the duty of her aunt to groom her for family life.
      Virginity in this culture is held in high esteem so the girls must abstain from premarital sโ‚ฌx.
      The Tribes of Uganda consider the slim physique unattractive. To them, fat is simply sexy. So when girls get to the ages eight and nine, they are required to go through a fattening process. This is usually done to speed up the weight gain of the girls so they can attract a husband. Though the Banyakole marriage practice is unique , however it has been widespread in Uganda and now days all the tribal communities are following the same tradition/ practice .
    • Now all people of Uganda ( including Christians and Muslims ) except Hindus are following this tradition/ practice.
      Interestingly, Modernization and Christianity have also led to an incline in this practice. Thus the above marriage traditions / practices at present are to be considered as representative of the entire tribe or region of Uganda ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฌ
      At present all tribes in Uganda have taken aunties meddling in a couple’s marriage to another level.
      Virginity is highly respected in the entire Ugandan. Since, the bride must be a virgin, the groom must also be great in bed.
      At the age of eight, the aunt begins to groom the young girl for marriage. Once she develops breasts, she ought not to have sex. A bride who is not a virgin is considered of less value and suffers social exclusion or even the death penalty.
      The tribes of Uganda consider fatness to be a sign of attractiveness. Young girls are kept indoors and fed non vegetarian meals , millet porridge and a lot of milk to make them fat. All the brother in laws of the groom are to certify the virgin test of the bride. The brothers in law are also asked to “test” to see if the bride is still virgin or otherwise.
      After the marriage, the selected women will even observe or listen in while the bride and groom engage in sexual activity to help the couple improve their sex life.
      Although this archaic custom may seem strange, it demonstrates how the tribal people, value virginity.

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