A Growing Desire by Young Women to Return Home
By Lokanath Mishra
Many Indians living abroad, particularly in the US, are increasingly considering returning to their homeland due to feelings of loneliness, isolation, and disconnection. The desire for a sense of belonging, cultural connection, and community is driving this trend, with some individuals weighing the pros and cons of staying abroad versus returning to India.
Recently, I’ve encountered several young Indian women, particularly those of Odia origin, who have expressed their desire to not stay in America for an extended period due to the challenges of living in the US. These challenges include feelings of loneliness and isolation, which are further exacerbated by the uncertainty of obtaining a green card.
Many of these women have shared that their husbands are their primary source of social interaction, but their relationships are often strained. This lack of social connection has led them to consider returning to India, where they believe it would be easier to form meaningful relationships.
A common sentiment among these women is that loneliness is a prevalent issue in the US. Some have suggested practical solutions, such as finding hobbies or interests, visiting temples regularly, and participating in cultural and religious activities, to meet new people and build connections.
The discussion also touched on the idea that the “grass is greener on the other side,” with some women noting that it’s essential to weigh the pros and cons of living in the US versus returning to India. Others suggested that hobbies and meaningful activities can help alleviate loneliness, regardless of one’s location.
The candid discussions among these women highlight a growing desire among some Indians to return home, seeking a sense of belonging and connection. Their experiences serve as a reminder that loneliness can affect anyone and that acknowledging these feelings and seeking support is crucial. By building connections and finding meaningful relationships, individuals can take steps towards a more fulfilling life.
